why is every one mean and nasty?

i just had a mean and nasty boss. quit my job i did becuz i felt like i was goan ter have a hart attack. it’s been 2 weeks now and i feel much better.

only back in 2016 i had the best boss ever at the previous employment. i’ll give him a made up commom name, tom. tom was cool and understanding and supportive. we had a great rapport. mebbe becuz we were both irish. i got hired at the end of may 2016 and on january 2nd 2017 tom goes into a meeting and never comes back. well, the plant manager comes in a few hours later and says they let tom go! i never did find out why this happened. tom had a great reputation in the company.

he was replaced with a fellow i shall call be-bop. be-bop was a sigma black belt. he was hand picked by the CEO to turn this division around. be-bop got in everyone’s face and stirred things up. i went from being a mechanical inspector to a paper pusher. i kept asking him for a dollar but no dice. little by little be-bop changed. he become entrenched in the way things were done. that’s not to say he didnt change things. he did. lots more traceability through paperwork mostly.be-bop lost his job after one year, the same as tom. i met a person still working there and she told me.

i found a new job in october 2017. only after i handed in my resignation did the company make me an offer of more money. i left.

but i got the boss from hell, made up name joe. i guess we didnt get along with each other becuz we are both irish.

i suspect he gave me the business becuz he hated the owner’s son who just happened to hire me. i’ll never really know. joe sez he is the great guy who goes around helping people, except for me. i know because he told me he wouldnt help me.

there is a big difference between tom and joe. tom never went around telling people how great he is and all the good things he done. oh, sure i talked about “the old days” with tom and sort of exchanged experience. tom wasnt must of a bragger.

joe was a bragger and blew his own horn loudly and often. he berated who ever wanst around. joe gets to keep his job and i get to scramble.

i noticed that almost 1/3 of the people i meet are just like joe. mean, nasty, loud mouths prone to back stabbing.

i live in the grape stake of new jerky and it could be the effect of the NYC metro area. i dont like it. i aint naturally mean and nasty.

the GF, the ex GF threw a sponge at me the last time i saw, this after me picking up thai food for dinner. she was aiming right between the eyes but pulled back at the last second. she had a mean nasty look on her face.

she called me a few days later. she wanted me to by tickets to a live music show at a historic pub. i passed. i told her to find some one else to throw sponges at (OLD HAG!).

she was acting ornery for 3 weeks and bad company. when you dont have a GF you save lots of money.

i admit to spilling some take out sauce on her place mat but there was no reason to explode like that. a year ago her eye got infected and she couldnt see out of it and had trouble driving and i was there for her. after she got better i noticed little by little she was getting mean and nasty.

i see it when i got shopping 1/3 the people look mean and nasty, just waiting for law and order to break down so the can go around killing every one.

what is causing this out break of mean and nasty? @tomque rays? “r” pollution?
GTA? i suspect it is only to get worse. i am becoming a hermit.


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