my boss, i’ll call him joe (it’s a common name), told me on my first week that he was not going to help me, i shouldnt ask him anything.
once a month for 5 months he repeated that message. “get the fuck away from me”, “dont fucking talk to me” and other variations. joe is very profane speaker. being slick he always said these nasty things to me when others werent around to hear them. i wish i had a mini tape recorder and bugged him.
the only time he was civil to me is when he was covering his own ass. it was 3 days before the quality audit for recertification.
“mike (another made up name, meaning me) i know i havent trained you. sign these training documents and i’ll train you after the audit is over”. i knew he was lying. i signed them anyway. he was setting me up. 3 months from then he could say i was trained and how come i didnt know that training? 4 weeks now and he never mentioned training to me since. a good reason why i bailed. the company got 5 major discrepancies and 11 minor discrepancies that need to be addressed in 60 days. i laughed, HAH-HAH! of course joe blamed this all on others even though he is the quality manager.
he had another nasty habit which tied in with his unprofessional behavior towards myself.
although he would never discuss work related matters with me, he would rant about jason (another made up name). jason is the boss’s son. he told me that jason is totally incompetent and screws up everything. he doesnt know how to run a business and everything that goes wrong is jason’s fault. he also told me that jason is an alcoholic, beats his wife and neglects his children. almost every day and often twice a day he would launch into a jason bashing jag. he would often stand in the middle of the inspection room and go on these jags talking to everyone and no one as if he was the ring leader at the circus. he was quite enjoying himself basking in that spot light.
now that i think about it i never heard him say anything nice about anybody.
in fact, who ever wasnt around he would say nasty things about that person. i’m using some more made up common names.
when tony wasnt there he was an idiot, when tom wasnt there he was an idiot and the common thread through all was jason was an idiot.
he told me how he goes to church and helps people. well, actions speak louder than words.
he did talk about a big argument he had at a supermarket around thanksgiving. something involving a free turkey offer and other shoppers and the cashier and the manager. he was the customer from hell. that i can believe.
he bad mouths his father in law and as the mood suits him his son. his son is either a lazy sack of shit or a super genius.
then joe implies how he is going to fuck people up who mess with him. he complained a few times how he was ill used at some past jobs. i suspect that his coworkers compared notes, realized he is an ass and played him.
he has a pilot’s license,an FM radio operator’s license, worked on top secret projects at a bankrupt defense firm 40 years ago. hates his father and lots more. made custom motorcycles before it was main stream. he was over worked, did duties outside his department, fixed every one else’s mistakes, all sorts of conflicting snippets of his life he told me but never anything i needed to know to do my job.
i was floundering with out direction without assistance, without help and i was nervous and upset that i was trapped in such a toxic interpersonal business relationship. he did point out my mistakes. i suspect that his hatred for jason lead him to treat me poorly. jason hired me on. if i fail then that is another thing he can call out jason on for being incompetent.
when i left i emailed the boss and told him all this, especially how joe bad mouths his son. how could i have stayed there with such an nasty, evil person and told the boss without joe making my life even more miserable?
joe relies on the stockholm syndrome. that is where a person who is being tormented looks forward to being tormented.
some of the other people chimed in as filthy, dirty, laughing yes men and agreed with joe when he spewed forth his poison about jason.
i once said i wish i could walk around with a cup of coffee all day like jason does and joe replied in a split second without hesitating that the coffee was spiked with alcohol. joe said that jason’s coffee is stronger than irish coffee.
i decided not to get on joe’s good side any more. he willfully ignored me so i ignored him. unless he spoke directly to me i would not speak to him.
a few times he pretended he was interested in what i was doing. that is because the plant manager was there and i was discussing a technical issue with a coworker.
he told me not to talk to him so when i went to someone else with a technical issue he would get insulted “because i left him out of the loop”!
internet researchers of the future may be interested in how us people of the present lived and interacted with each other. maybe a future chas. dickens can use it as plot device.
looking at all the violence in the world today, and the many worlds theory of multiple earths, i suspect that in one of those alternate time lines that alternate me went berserk and bashed joe’s head in. i admire that me because this me is chicken shit.
i did ask jesus to help me. i know jesus can work miracles. there is precious little a “normal” person can do with the evil boss from hell. it’s all in god’s hands now.
March 25, 2018
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